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When good people say dumb things

March 6, 2015
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This year鈥檚 diversity session at the 秀色直播 Annual Meeting has a much broader theme than sessions in years past, says Monique L. Snowden (pictured left), PhD, Vice President, Academic and Enrollment Services at Fielding Graduate University and 秀色直播 Vice President for Access and Equity. 鈥淚t鈥檚 a come-one, come-all session鈥攔elevant to all members, and helpful for relationships with students, colleagues and counterparts at other institutions,鈥 she said.

The session, presented by Maura Cullen (pictured right), EdD, Diversity and Leadership, Speaker and Trainer, addresses the 鈥淒umb Things Well-Intended People Say: Skills to Build Diversity Competency.鈥

鈥淲e鈥檙e talking about diversity across institutional types, geographies, professions鈥攊n addition to race, gender and other identities,鈥 Snowden added. 鈥淎s professionals who engage in very diverse workplaces and in a diverse association, it鈥檚 beneficial for everyone to think about these issues.鈥

秀色直播: Why is this an important issue for 秀色直播ans?

Snowden: On the student side, academic and enrollment services professionals are right there at the entry point to the institution as well as the exit points, and many junctures in between. Our relationship and engagement with students needs to be intentional and informed. The same goes for our relationships with other higher education professionals; it鈥檚 important for us to be in tune with the way we are communicating and aware of how we鈥檙e being experienced by others.

Cullen: I love what Monique said about being the entrance and exit points, because this group of professionals really are the ambassadors of the university. Communication can determine whether or not a student will consider your university鈥攁nd also the legacy that the university will leave for better or for worse. Unfortunately we often make our mistakes in public, where they can be even more costly鈥攁nd reflect on the institution as well.

秀色直播: What kinds of 鈥渄umb鈥 mistakes do people commonly make?

Cullen: Even well-intended people cause harm. But sometimes, when someone is offended, they don鈥檛 know how to talk about it, so they don鈥檛 say anything at all. If we don鈥檛 talk about it, the anger or doubt remains in the relationship and can affect our work. What happens is we don鈥檛 learn from one another. And that鈥檚 a huge loss, because our relationships with colleagues can be our greatest professional asset.

One common example is people saying, 鈥淚 don鈥檛 see color. I鈥檓 color blind.鈥 This usually said by white folks to folks of color, not realizing how it鈥檚 received.

Snowden: When you say 鈥淚鈥檓 color blind,鈥 this person standing in front of you may take that in many ways, like that you don鈥檛 see them or that you鈥檙e rejecting their identity. An important thing to know is that everyone makes unintentional missteps in our diversity-related communications鈥攔ather than retreating, we need to use those moments as opportunities to learn.

秀色直播: What are the consequences of these communication breakdowns?

Cullen: One big one is staff retention. Departments spend a lot of money recruiting talented colleagues and training them. If we don鈥檛 retain them, that鈥檚 a poor investment. Retaining a diverse staff also helps attract a diverse student body.

秀色直播: What is to be gained from improving communication around diversity issues?

Snowden: From a pragmatic point, we are able to better fulfill the missions of our institutions鈥攎issions that may be strong on social justice and social impact. Some institutional missions specifically call out diversity. It鈥檚 not enough to say we鈥檙e trying to increase diversity on our campuses. It鈥檚 one point to recruit diverse students and staff, it鈥檚 another to work toward helping them feel welcome, included, respected, seen, heard, and experienced for all that they bring.

From an association standpoint, it affects how we engage in our association. In Group 5: Access and Equity we have several caucuses, each open to anyone who wants to join. Group 5 leaders are making strides on modeling richer and more effective communications within and between the caucuses. We hope, however, that this session helps spark broader conversations about the ways in which 秀色直播 members and those on their campuses鈥攚ith diverse identities and life experiences鈥攎ight feel misunderstood and marginalized. I鈥檓 hoping session attendees will be able to extrapolate from this session and think about different forms of diversity and be more in tune with how we relate to one another鈥攈ow we鈥檙e different but also think about our similarities.

Cullen: One big thing to be gained is enjoyment鈥攚e like getting up in the morning and going to work. Collegiality: we see one another as friend, not foe.

秀色直播: What do you hope people take away from the session?

Snowden: It will hopefully create an opportunity for members to have a conversation with someone about something that鈥攑rior to this session鈥攖hey didn鈥檛 feel comfortable or prepared to do. We can have immediate results from Maura鈥檚 session at the annual meeting. Others are more long term. But all can be deep and affecting about how we value one another and our relationships. This is what an association is all about鈥攕trengthening professional ties with each other, especially when we come together.

秀色直播: What do you look forward to at this year鈥檚 Annual Meeting?

Cullen: I love Baltimore鈥擨 love the Inner Harbor.

Snowden: I鈥檓 looking forward to Madeline Albright鈥檚 session. I鈥檓 interested to hear what she has to say to our membership. I think we have an excellent lineup of speakers.

Also, Maura and I have connected about this session but not met in person, so I鈥檓 looking forward to attending Maura鈥檚 session and finally getting a chance to meet her.

 

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